When I (Christie) was younger, I had no empathy for anyone whatsoever. Other than myself.
I don't remember exactly how it went, but I used to get in trouble a lot for not saying sorry.
I believed that if I said I was sorry but didn't feel it, I would be lying. And I hardly ever 'felt' sorry.
If my siblings wronged me in any way, I'd smack them really hard, and I didn't see anything wrong with that. I felt totally justified... even if they were younger and smaller than me.
When I was about twelve, it became much easier for me to apologize, and most of the time I recognize when I say or do something I shouldn't have pretty much right away.
Other times, I read my Bible and realize how I probably shouldn't have done or said something. And then I feel compelled to apologize. So I can't really take credit for that.
My mom found this Apology notepad and thought it might come in handy around our house. She is actually really excited to fill one out the next time she behaves badly.
I know a few people that need that tablet- me included!
Posted by: Candace | 08/08/2013 at 10:15 PM
I would love a copy of this.
Posted by: Robin | 03/08/2014 at 07:23 PM